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The Tools Of Recovery are:
a
plan of eating
sponsorship
meetings
telephone
writing
literature
anonymity
service
In working Overeaters Anonymous' Twelve-Step
program of recovery from compulsive overeating, we have found that
there are a number of tools available to assist us. We use these
tools-a plan of eating, sponsorship, meetings, the telephone, writing,
literature, anonymity and service-on a regular basis, to help us
achieve and maintain abstinence.
In Overeaters Anonymous (OA), abstinence is "the
action of refraining from compulsive eating." Many of us have
found that we cannot abstain from compulsive eating unless we use
some or all of OA's eight tools of recovery.
A Plan of Eating
As a tool, a plan of eating helps us to abstain from
eating compulsively. Having a personal plan of eating guides us
in our dietary decisions, as well as defines what, when, how, where
and why we eat. It is our experience that sharing this plan with
a sponsor or another OA member is important.
There are no specific requirements for a plan of eating;
OA does not endorse, recommend or distribute any specific food plan,
nor does it exclude the personal use of one. For specific dietary
or nutritional guidance, OA suggests consulting a qualified health
care professional, such as a physician or dietitian. Each of us
develops a personal plan of eating based on an honest appraisal
of his or her own past experience; we also have come to identify
our current individual needs, as well as those things which we should
avoid.
Although individual plans of eating are as varied
as our members, most OA members agree that some plan-no matter how
flexible or structured-is necessary.
This tool helps us deal with the physical aspects
of our disease, and helps us achieve physical recovery. From this
vantage point, we can more effectively follow OA's Twelve-Step program
of recovery and move beyond the food to a happier, healthier and
more spiritual living experience.

Sponsorship
Sponsors are OA members who are living the Twelve
Steps and Twelve Traditions to the best of their ability. They are
willing to share their recovery with other members of the Fellowship
and are committed to abstinence.
We ask a sponsor to help us through our program of
recovery on all three levels: physical, emotional and spiritual.
By working with other members of OA and sharing their experience,
strength and hope, sponsors continually renew and reaffirm their
own recovery. Sponsors share their program up to the level of their
own experience.
Ours is a program of attraction; find a sponsor who
has what you want, and ask that person how he or she is achieving
it. A member may work with more than one sponsor and may change
sponsors at will.

Meetings
Meetings are gatherings of two or more compulsive
overeaters who come together to share their personal experience,
and the strength and hope OA has given them. Though there are many
types of meetings, fellowship with other compulsive overeaters is
the basis of them all. Meetings give us an opportunity to identify
and confirm our common problem and to share the gifts we receive
through this program.

Telephone
The telephone helps us share on a one-to-one basis
and avoid the isolation which is so common among us. Many members
call other OA members and their own sponsors daily. As a part of
the surrender process, it is a tool with which we learn to reach
out, ask for help and extend help to others. The telephone also
provides an immediate outlet for those hard-to-handle highs and
lows we may experience.

Writing
In addition to writing our inventories and the list
of people we have harmed, most of us have found that writing has
been an indispensable tool for working the Steps. Further, putting
our thoughts and feelings down on paper, or describing a troubling
incident, helps us to better understand our actions and reactions
in a way that is often not revealed to us by simply thinking or
talking about them. In the past, compulsive eating was our most
common reaction to life. When we put our difficulties down on paper,
it becomes easier to see situations more clearly and perhaps better
discern any necessary action.

Literature
We study and read OA-approved pamphlets; OA-approved
books, such as Overeaters Anonymous, The Twelve Steps and Twelve
Traditions of Overeaters Anonymous and For Today; and we read Lifeline,
our monthly magazine on recovery. We also study the book Alcoholics
Anonymous, referred to as the "Big Book," to understand
and reinforce our program. Many OA members find that when read on
a daily basis, the literature further reinforces how to live the
Twelve Steps. Our OA literature and the AA "Big Book"
are ever-available tools which provide insight into our problem
of eating compulsively, strength to deal with it, and the very real
hope that there is a solution for us.

Anonymity
Anonymity, referred to in Traditions Eleven and Twelve,
is a tool that guarantees that we will place principles before personalities.
The protection anonymity provides offers each of us freedom of expression
and safeguards us from gossip. Anonymity assures us that only we,
as individual OA members, have the right to make our membership
known within our community. Anonymity at the level of press, radio,
films and television means that we never allow our faces or last
names to be used once we identify ourselves as OA members. This
protects both the individual and the Fellowship.
Within the Fellowship, anonymity means that whatever
we share with another OA member will be held in respect and confidence.
What we hear at meetings should remain there. However, it should
be understood that anonymity must not be used to limit our effectiveness
within the Fellowship. It is not a break of anonymity to use our
full names within our group or OA service bodies. Also, it is not
a break of anonymity to enlist Twelfth-Step help for group members
in trouble, provided we are careful to refrain from discussing any
specific personal information.
Another aspect of anonymity is that we are all equal
in the Fellowship, whether we are newcomers or seasoned long-timers.
And our outside status makes no difference in OA; we have no stars
or VIPs. We come together simply as compulsive overeaters.

Service
Carrying the message to the compulsive overeater who
still suffers is the basic purpose of our Fellowship; therefore,
it is the most fundamental form of service. Any form of service-no
matter how small-which helps reach a fellow sufferer adds to the
quality of our own recovery. Getting to meetings, putting away chairs,
putting out literature, talking to newcomers, doing whatever needs
to be done in a group or for OA as a whole, are ways in which we
give back what we have so generously been given. We are encouraged
to do what we can when we can. "A life of sane and happy usefulness"
is what we are promised as the result of working the Twelve Steps.
Service helps to fulfill that promise.
As OA's responsibility pledge states: "Always
to extend the hand and heart of OA to all who share my compulsion;
for this, I am responsible."

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